In love with love

In love with love

Love,we use that word so much.As a complaint,as a judgement,as an assumption,as a confession,as a proposal,as an expression of gratitude,as a base for jokes, and in my case, a topic for a new blog post :D .The first love that we experience is that of a mother.A mother is someone who selflessly accepts her child irrespective of how he/she behaves with her.Whether we love or despise our parents,we can't deny the fact that they have made a lot of sacrifices for us.

During the course of our life,we get attached to people because of love.Though there are many other reasons to get attached  but love takes the cake in that department.We learn to love from our elders,the kind of love varies from family to family.The values sown in the family,differentiates us from others.

Slowly,we start to break our shells.We begin to question the rules and regulations imposed on us by family or society.We start rebelling and find love in people who are facing similar restrictions.Sometimes,we love them because they are different and we want to be like them.In other cases,we just want their advice for the rest of our lives.

Teenage is the time we discover our "True Love". :D .This ,so called love, teaches us a lot if we are ready to learn from it.Remember those images that we shared or still share about those cheesy love posts on facebook and twitter to show our opinions on love.

Now,because I am panning such posts doesn't mean I don't do it :P .It just means I am sarcastic and stupid at the same time.Getting a little serious,we create impressions of love in our minds from what we learn as we grow up and teenage ones constitute a major portion of those impressions.And depending on such impressions we tend to find our ideal suitor.Sometimes the relationship works,sometimes it falls down head first into a 20 feet deep pit.

But,the most interesting thing that can be observed about such relationships and their break-ups and patch-ups is that they can tell us about the strength of the people involved.Strength and weakness,by the way.When people break up,there generally 4 possibilities.

An imminent patch up when the two parties can’t live without each other  :D .

A split where both of them hate each other’s guts and plot revenge in many degrading ways.

A split where the two parties immediately stop communicating with each other.

A split where both of them remain really good friends until eventually they lose touch .

And believe me,all these reasons speak volumes about the characters of those people.For instance,in the first scenario,the two people are not exactly made-for-each-other in the literal sense.They are just people who are introverts (not necessarily both of them) who can’t take risks of meeting or trusting someone else.Such people would eventually end up together with enormous sacrifices.The second case shows a lack in acceptance of closure.They just can’t accept the fact that its over.Plotting revenge for either the reason of the split or for effects of it shows immaturity and revenge-minded mentality.

In desperate need for closure,they will harm themselves while thinking they are harming their ex-partner.The third situation though sounds mature but doesn’t always turn out to be so.One night stands also causes the third kind.But,this case also has the most mature people that we can ever come across.Last kind is the one where the duo have sacrificed their friends for some or the other reason and can’t afford to lose each other.Desperate kind of friendship.It stays either until one of them realize this desperation or until they find a better friend/companion who directly/indirectly forces him/her to do so.

But,the thing I am most amazed by is the fact that the person who after breaking up waits for a long time.This particular event again has two scenarios.Forgive me if I am going into details,but thats my style :P .Either the person has lost faith in relationships or (the best part) he/she is waiting for the right person and during that period between the failed relationship and meeting the right person,he/she learns a lot and that is what makes him/her mature and responsible and also enables them to choose a responsible partner.The more the time taken off relationships,the more responsibility he/she attains in choosing a partner.The span of time taken depends on luck or karma or even on each person’s intellect.

After such a detailed evaluation,I would like to say that please choose a right partner and please take as much time as possible.There are better fish in the sea and much more important work to do.Life goes on.And with that note, I will get back to my daily schedule now.Cheers! ;)